Instead of whining, try to embrace and see them as an opportunity to grow and be the best version of ourselves.
Struggle comes before success, just like how the moon exist on the other side of the sun, darkness with the light, and sadness with happiness, we will never know what we have until we lose them, and we will never know how capable and how strong we are if we don’t experience loss and sufferings, so instead of whining, face them, punch them in the face, stand up, be bigger than your struggles, learn from them, be wise, be humble, be optimistic, be compassionate, control your emotions, become the person you are always meant to be.
Life will hit us in the face with a brick, you will never know when, you will never know where, and you will never know why, not until you are on your knees crying, struggling, hopeless, and sad. It’s a struggle you will face eventually in life, it’s unavoidable, there is nothing you can do, it’s something that is out of your reach, it’s out of your control, it could mean losing a family member, it could mean losing the love of your life, it could mean losing your career, your business, your money, your self, whatever it’s form, it’s a painful process you need to endure and sometimes it could be too much, it could be all at once.
Life has its unique way of teaching us the greatest lessons, and you can either face it, be mad at it, be crazy at it, cry, scream, it’s all up to you on how you will handle it, one thing is certain, you cannot run from it, even if you try, there’s no escape, it’s like a door on a horror house, that one entrance door that no matter how scary, how lonely, you need to open it and pass it, it will be dark, scary and you will lose your way multiple times until you finally see that tiny dim of light, finally, the silver lining.
Just keep winging it. Even if you don’t know what to do, even if you do not understand life, you see no matter how hopeless, scary and lonely along the way, you will see what it’s worth one day, there will always be rainbow at the end of the rain and the beginning of the sun, it’s crystal, it’s remarkable, so whatever struggle you are facing currently, know this, eventually you will be okay, you will come out on the other side, eventually, you will, no matter how many times you scream and cry, you will survive, just take it one day at a time, just continue walking, even if its just one step a day, just keep walking, no matter what, it doesn’t matter how long will it takes you from point A to point B, no matter what just take that one step a day, you will see how far it will take you, just one more step.
Life is a series of a rollercoaster, always remember that you might be struggling today or recently, know that success and blessings are already on its way you just have to be optimistic, persevere, and keep going.
Live the life that you want, take what’s yours, get your power back, you are more capable than you thought you are, you can do more, you can give more, embrace whatever it is, let it go, cut it off, be bold, be responsible for your actions, accept defeat and failures, learn from it and be wise, greatness will find you back you just have to keep going.